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The ABDL Community and Adult Diapers

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A growing community who use and wear diapers are adults without any incontinence condition. This community is lumped together using an acronym of ABDL, but, as with many things, such a label can be confusing, create misunderstanding and obscure nuances that are important to understand. We'll explain what ABDL means, the various groups involved and their preferences in types of diapers.  

What Does ABDL Mean? 

ABDL is an acronym that stands for Adult Baby/Diaper Lover which are two separate subgroups of the same community. It is unknown how large of a community ABDL or either of the subgroups are in size, but the amount of online activity including forums, groups, social media etc. has consistently grown and, with increased awareness, more growth and demand for diapers would be expected. 

Who Are ABDLs?

AB stands for Adult Babies. These are adults who enjoy acting and roleplaying as infants. They find it fun or sexually exciting to return mentally to a childlike state. In scientific terms, this is called paraphilic infantilism. They can wear diapers, baby clothes and use pacifiers or drink from a bottle as part of the roleplay activity.  

DL stands for Diaper Lovers. These adults can also be AB, but not always. Some are not interested in baby, older child or teenager roleplaying. They might simply prefer to wear diapers instead of other types of underwear. There can be a connection to past or present incontinence issues where the adult started using diapers and grew to love them. 

What Types of Diapers Do ABDLs Like?

Many ABs and DLs like super absorbant incontience diapers. Some like bulky types using star, animal and superhero prints or designs, but absorbency is a common attribute most appreciate. Underx's line of Xtreme absorbent underwear is a good example of a super absorbent diaper. It can absorb up to 82 ounces, the equivalent of 10 eight-ounce glasses of fluid. 

DLs also like tabbed incontinence briefs that they can change out of quickly and easily to put on a new pair. Underx's line of Xtreme tabbed absorbent underwear which combine the superior absorbency and tabbed brief style for quick and easy changing. 

Some ABDLs also like using washcloths or wipes, like Underx's disposable washcloths, and skin cream, similar to Underx's skin relief balm, as part of either roleplaying activities or as part of their usage of adult diapers. 

There is no one reason why individuals claim their identity as an ABDL, but many like the emotional feeling they get from wearing diapers and imitating a baby. Some enjoy the soft texture of the adult diaper that makes them feel, similar to those who use to manage incontinence, comfortable and secure.

Please visit our online shop for ABDL diapers or contact us with any questions about the ABDL community.   

37 comments

I’m interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with an ABDL but I’m not an ABDL myself, just wondering for their sake and my own if it’s a good idea.

Janice,

I’m in Springfield mass, I’m ABDL, I’m tired of online, is there anyone looking for a guy/baby, I’m respectful, honest

Tall diaper baby ,

adisc.org is a good chat space and abdiscovery.com is great for reading about our AB/DL identity which everyone should enjoy and accept….my WhatsApp is 0(44)7706648312 & I want to set up a ABDL home for us to enjoy….cheers,Riki

Riki De Baer,

Sharing a great site called RedQuill to create ABDL stories based on your own direction https://www.redquill.net/

Martha,

I’m very new to this community even though i’ve been interested in this for very long time. I’m 24, Korean :)

Sophie,

I wish I could meet a wouthat will just except me being an adult baby

Rowdy ,

I am New to this Community. I love the thought of someone taking care of me in baby form. But I have been having trouble finding the Right People to communicate with about it. I have been Scammed so many times by fake people saying that they are from the community. So please help me find the Right people

Stephen Bolin,

I am looking to meet more people that in to the ABDL community. Il

Ted Zeigler,

I am abdl looking for abdl friends I’m still kinda new to abdl

Ash,

Hey

Alex,

im from fort wayne indiana. looking for friends.

chris birch,

Hi, I am new to the community, as well as to the self – publishing world. I have been writing ABDL short stories for over a decade, and I’ve recently published my first ABDL novella. It is a first in a series that I am riding under the pen name L.K. Misiano and the title is “Emma Lee: Home for the Summer.” it is available on Amazon and I’m really proud of it and I would love for any of you to check it out and Emma Lee: Home for the Summer let me know what you think!
Emma Lee: Home for the Summer https://a.co/d/0Syx2FI

Mary Taylor ,

Hi, I am new to the community, as well as to the self – publishing world. I have been writing ABDL short stories for over a decade, and I’ve recently published my first ABDL novella. It is a first in a series that I am riding under the pen name L.K. Misiano and the title is “Emma Lee: Home for the Summer.” it is available on Amazon and I’m really proud of it and I would love for any of you to check it out and Emma Lee: Home for the Summer let me know what you think!
Emma Lee: Home for the Summer https://a.co/d/0Syx2FI

Mary Taylor,

Abdl lover

Benjamin ,

Hey so I’m kinda new to this community I’ve been in and out of diaper’s since 13 and have to use them at work and home, Plus I still live with my parents who hate it. So I’m wondering if there’s anywhere I can go to meet people like me in this place so I’m not so alone?

Draven ,

My name is Kenny Branson. I live in Newburgh, Indiana and I enjoy wearing diapers. I am currently 38 years old. I would like to meet other people like me and who possibly live nearby.

Kenny Branson,

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